Woman’s Fiancé Tells Her Best Friend She ‘Wouldn’t Notice’ If He Cheated

A woman learned that her fiancé made an inappropriate comment while out with her best friend — only to later claim it was just a “joke.”

In a recent Reddit post, the 28-year-old woman said she recently found out that her 30-year-old fiancé told her female best friend “that he could ‘probably cheat on me and I wouldn’t notice.’ ”

“Apparently, they were out drinking while I was working late, and he thought it was ‘funny banter,'” she adds.

While her fiancé thought his comment was humorous, the poster’s best friend was “disgusted” and told her about it “immediately.”

“When I confronted him, he tried to spin it as a ‘joke,'” she writes. “Now I can’t stop replaying every moment, every late night, every weird gut feeling.”

Her partner, however, has been “begging” her to “lighten up” and “swears he’s never actually cheated.”

Still, the poster can’t help but feel a bit uneasy about the situation and is now left wondering if there was any truth to his comment.

“How do you ‘joke’ about something like that to my best friend of all people?” she wonders.

People in the comments section insisted that his comment was “not banter,” but rather “disrespect.” Others suggested he may have been “testing the waters” to see if her best friend would be interested in him.

“He wanted to try to sleep with your best friend. that is what that means,” one user replied, to which another agreed, “He was 100% trying to get with your best friend and she was an absolute green flag on how she handled it. You need to drop that loser of a boyfriend ASAP.”